One of the more interesting aspects of this job is that I get to play “therapist.” Being naked with an escort girl seems to be just what some men (woman) need to relax and let themselves go. For
many of my clients we may spend 10 minutes having sex (just like a married couple) and the next 50 I spend listening, commenting and for some even giving advice based on my own personal experiences.
The first step is usually sexual in that they can live their fantasy’s with me, their fetishes that no one in the world knows about, nor will they. Once we have established that bond, the rest comes quickly. They talk about anything freely since we’ve already passed that barrier. For me it may take just two meetings, I ‘m sure for the regular therapist it may take months to get there.
So what do we talk about? many times simply the man and female relationships, how we change over time, how our “wants” and needs change over time . Obviously, this includes my clients own sexual fantasies, that they dare not mention to their wives. These discussions then leads us to their own personal relationships. Sometimes they just want to be heard.
I become the listening post, and in fact I really do listen! The topics vary as does the intensity, but it is a part of my life now. At least I don’t have to deal with the classic psychologist problem of erotic transference, since with me its part of the therapy 🙂